Is your wedding really for you... or for everyone else? This week, we’re diving into one of the most controversial wedding questions: Whose day is it, anyway? We’re unpacking the pressure couples face to plan the “perfect” party that keeps everyone happy—while still trying to create something that actually feels like them. From sticky guest expectations and family opinions, to that internal battle between “we want a donut wall” and “what will people think?”, we’re keeping it real and helping you decide what truly matters when planning your big day. So pour a drink, ditch the guilt, and let’s talk about how to plan a wedding that reflects your love story without losing your mind (or your personality) in the process.